Archive for June, 2007

Way Back Into Love

Friday, June 22nd, 2007

Way Back Into Love

I’ve been living with a shadow overhead
I’ve been sleeping with a cloud above my bed
I’ve been lonely for so long
Trapped in the past
I just can’t seem to move on

I’ve been hiding all my hopes and dreams away
Just in case I ever need them again someday
I’ve been setting aside time to clear a little space in the corners of my mind

All I wanna do is find a way back into love
I can’t make through without a way back into love

I’ve been watching but the stars refuse to shine
I’ve been searching but I just don’t see the signs
I know that it’s out there
There’s gotta be something for my soul somewhere

I’ve been looking for someone to shed some light
Not somebody just to get me through the night
I could use some direction and I’m open to your suggestions

All I wanna do is find a way back into love
I can’t make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart again
I guess I’m hoping that you’ll be there for me in the end

There are moments when I don’t know if it’s real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration not just another negotiation

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can’t make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart to you I’m hoping you’ll show me what to do
And if you’ll help me to start again
You know that I’ll be there for you in the end

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i’m about to give up

Sunday, June 10th, 2007

it’s hard!
i dont understand…
what should i do…
is it the time to give up…
i dont know how to know what in his mind

sometimes it is easy for me to get someone doing what i want or giving what i need
but him…i dont know…i dont know

and i dont even know myself..

ok i reckon i got the answer
if i dont even know my own feeling, how can i know his feeling…

and i still dont know…

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What OPRAH Say about MAN

Saturday, June 9th, 2007
What OPRAH Say about MAN
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy.
If
a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t "be friends". A friend wouldn’t mistreat a
friend.

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he

probably is.
Don’t stay because you think "it will get better."
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not
better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he
treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.

Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even
if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll
cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromis e is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships. ..there is nothing
cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You
should never look for someone to COMPLETE you… a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not
supplementary.

Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make
him miss you sometimes… when a man always know where you are, and
you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t
fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share
this with other women and men (just so they know)… You’ll make
someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to
forget them.

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